As closely as I can remember, the December issue of Redbook magazine once featured a cookie exchange, festive with photographs and—if I am not mistaken—this particular cookie exchange took place in Ohio in the 1970s. I have collected the December issues of many women’s magazines for about fifty years and most are packed in boxes in the garage—I hate to part with any of them.
What I do remember best is that a group of us—coworkers in the office where I worked—held a few cookie exchanges. I hosted one in my home. A friend named Lyn also hosted one. Another year we had the cookie exchange at work . The first cookie exchange was really a flop. We spread the cookies out on platters and let everyone just help themselves to whatever they wanted. As hostess I ended up with all the burnt, crumbling cookies no one else wanted. First lesson learned: Everybody brings 5 or 6 dozen of ONE cookie. It must be a Christmas cookie and it can’t be store bought. Yes, people brought store bought cookies and made no attempt to conceal it. Then each guest receives two or three of each cookie, depending on how many people are there.
Last year I bought a Good Housekeeping cookbook titled THE GREAT CHRISTMAS COOKIE SWAP COOKBOOK. Theoretically, cookie exchanges should work out to everybody’s satisfaction. The problem is getting six or more women to put some real effort into making six dozen of one Christmas cookie and putting some thought and consideration into the project. At one of the cookie exchanges my younger sister hosted, she compiled all the recipes into booklets for each of the guests. And no matter how much the hostess emphasizes that the cookies shouldn’t be ordinary run-of-the-mill cookies—they should be Christmas cookies. Despite our emphasis on this rule, several people will still bring an ordinary chocolate chip or oatmeal cookie. Inevitably, they will say they really don’t know how to bake Christmas cookies or they didn’t have time. there are more excuses than there are cookies.
One Christmas, my granddaughter and I made large Christmas tree cookies, frosted and decorated to look like a Christmas tree. I baked; she decorated. It baffles me that, years later – so many people don’t understand the concept of a cookie exchange.
I read on Google that cookie exchanges go back seventy years or more. I never heard of them at all until people I worked with started talking about cookie exchanges.
So, what to do if you are invited to attend a cookie exchange? Put some thought into one cookie that would look festive and yummy. It doesn’t need to be very elaborate or expensive. If your resources are limited, buy a couple bags of a cookie mix; beg or borrow a few Christmas cookie cutters from a friend or neighbor. You will need two nice cookie sheets; if you line them with parchment paper, you can reuse the paper many times. If you make little star cookies, a small star will yield a lot of cookies. You can make dozens of little stars in a very short time. Cool them on a rack and when the stars are cool, glaze them with a thin white frosting, If you have a young helper in the kitchen let your sous chef helper drizzle some colored sprinkles on the glaze before it has time to set. Before you can sing all the verses to Rudolph the Red Nose Reindeer, your cookies will be baked, decorated, and ready to pack in little plastic baggies. And stores like Michaels and JoAnn’s have loads of different kinds of bags in which to pack your cookies. Or spread them out on a large Christmassy platter.
Take a copy of your recipe along to give to the hostess or if you are ambitious enough. make enough copies so that each guest (and the hostess) receives a copy.
Guests are sometimes asked to bring a few extra cookies for sampling; the hostess may offer coffee or tea to go with the cookie tasting.
It isn’t rocket science, girlfriends – a cookie exchange is easy.
–Sandra Lee Smith
“The Rules of the Cookie Exchange”
by Robin Olson ©1997
- All cookies should be homemade, baked and main ingredient must be flour.
- No plain chocolate chip cookies, cookie mixes, no-bakes, meringues or bars.
- Please bring 6 dozen total cookies.
- The theme is “Christmas Cookies” (You can make any theme you like.)
- Arrange cookies in a basket or platter and be creative! Bring a large container to carry away your cookie, (or the hostess can provide a take away container.)
- Email a copy of your recipe before the party (or bring recipe to the party)
- Christmas (or party theme) attire is encouraged!
- RSVP as soon as you can and let me know what type of cookies you are planning on baking – no duplicate recipes are allowed.
- There’s a prize for the best Christmas outfit. (Give prizes!)
- If you don’t have time to bake, or have burnt your cookies, but still want to attend, you must go to a real bakery and buy 6 dozen yummy cookies.
Go here for a simple text version of the rules to copy and paste. Modify to suit your needs and include on a separate sheet, with your invitation.
THE RULES OF THE COOKIE EXCHANGE
(aka Cookie Exchange Rules, Cookie Swap Rules)
Robin L. Olson, Copyright 1997
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